So - since getting top dollar for the house is integral to YOUR future plans - set an appointment to get the tenting done ...
As much as I am a believer that it is up to the WAS to do the work if they want out, I am in complete agreement to what kml says above.
The sooner the house can go on the market in the best shape possible, the more potential there is to get top dollar before you or your H finally decide to wreck the house of cards you are living in.
While it may appear on the outside that the LBS does not want to rock the boat for fear of capsizing, the harsh reality is that the vessels are leaking and will soon sink anyhow...
So either you are unconsciously biding your time, waiting for the demise of your M (which will happen if the current pattern is any indicator)... or you somehow believe that your H will magically come to his senses...
What's your guess as to your thoughts behind your actions?
To some, it may also look like you are still trying to play the victim, if they weren't privy to your words posted here...
So... how can Wendy take back control of her life?
