So last night my husband came home and was very pleasant. He was fixing the garage door opener and asked me to give him a hand. Normally I am somewhat put out by his requests because I am helping the kids with homework or making dinner or cleaning, but I am trying to do 180s so I agreed to help even though I am out of my element in that stuff. He thanked me for helping him and I went back into the house to finish dinner.

After dinner, we sat with the kids and watched movies and it felt like old times. We were laughing, enjoying our children. Another 180 I am using is my husband says I yell too much and get too angry. I am working on not raising my voice when the kids get out of hand. NOT easy to do, but I am managing.

When I got to bed H tells me he knows I am concerned that I won't find a place in my price range and was telling me how he found a 3-bedroom, 2-bath condo that I would be able to afford. That stung. I just said thanks for letting me know and didn't say anything else.


AT BD: WH 41, J 43; Bomb 2/5/2012
Two kids, one dog
D Final 6/18/14
J marries OW 1/24/15
"No matter where you go, there you are"