I went to see the atty this morning and I really feel comfortable with her. We went through everything and she had a better feel for my sitch and what is likely. I feel like I have the knowledge that I needed and can use it as I figure out my next steps.
She advised me not to leave the marital home and also that I could not force him to leave either. I asked him to leave last week and he refused.
I feel relieved to have that first consult behind me.