Has she mentioned anything about IVF recently? Has she stated that she doesn't mind being a single parent to TWO children?

I guess I don't understand her reasoning for wanting to pursue that more if she's still not sure if the two of you are going to stay together. I agree with you... that is a very hard thing to balance.

Me: 32 H: 32
M 9 yrs
#1 D7 #2 S5 #3 D2
Bomb 8/12/11
H moved out 8/14/11
PA started w/H & OW in 1/12 - found out 3/24/12
Got my own place 8/25/12
H & OW move in together 9/15/12
Still married.