All kinds of proof and H won't admit OW exists. Is this normal? It's very frustrating to me.."just admit it" I want to tell H. Take some responsibility for your "alien like" actions! By not admitting it, does it make them feel less guilty? I can't mentioned my "suspicions" without H becoming angry and irrational! (which causes H to go further into tunnel) so, I have to sit back and ignore the facts. He said he left home to "reflect" BS! Can't reflect with OW distractions! We were separated 1 year for work- only seeing each other on weekends. So he is use to not seeing much of us. Also, before H left he said he felt like a big white elephant in his own home. With this being said, what are some "180" changes I can put into place?