Its interesting, the feeling I get from H is we are still a couple, however we dont talk we dont live together, etc...I really have no idea where to start or what to do????

If he were to move back here, i feel like he would still be gone and not focus on the family...

My question today, how do you know its time to start "reconciling" and where does one start, how do you let go of all the pain? How do you communicate that without sounding like you are trying to make the other feel guilty?


m 41
h 44
d 17 (prev marriage)
d 9
Never give up!!!!!