So for her complaint "Continuously calling her family members to tell them she is ill", you said that you only texted her sister once, but above you say that you called her other relative twice AND sent a text about her mental condition. I guess that's where that complaint came from.
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I was very close with her family. See them weekly, etc.. hang out with them, go on family vacations with them. Usually see them twice a week. In the last 5 weeks I texted her sister once (she is one prescribing meds to wife) and called her mother twice. I did not suggest she was ill to her mother, but I did indicate that I wished she would consider marriage counseling. Before this I communicated fairly regularly with them.