FWIW, if you texted my sister, texted another family member and called the family member twice, I might think you were continuously calling my family to talk about me too -- I would think that these were the only incidents I know about, I'm sure there are more I don't know about. If you're running around behind my back talking to my family about me, what else are you doing behind my back?

Maybe that's not paranoia, maybe that's just a reaction to what you're doing.

Accuray

Married 18, Together 20, Now Divorced
M: 48, W: 50, D: 18, S: 16, D: 12
Bomb Dropped (EA, D): 7/13/11
Start Reconcile: 8/15/11
Bomb Dropped (EA, D): 5/1/2014 (Divorced)
In a New Relationship: 3/2015