Kat: We all thought we were in a good place. It is only in looking back that you realize things.
He is responsible for child support from the beginning. My ex did not pay it on my college age son nor did he pay tuition. When we got down to the finalities - it was all retroactive. But these dickheads would rather take that out of the "settlement", leaving you with nothing to go on in the interim. How they can do this to their spouses and children is beyond me. But they do it.
