My previous MO would have been to ask what's wrong, try to cajole him into a better mood, be over solicitous. I would also then ruin my good time by taking on his feelings.
And I respected my right to have a good time without being controlled by someone else's feelings.
I had to work this out step-by-step in my head as the day went on but it did make a difference.
Same here! Last night I just decided I wasn't going to. I had to keep telling myself not to check on him every 5 minutes and to just leave him alone.
This morning his mood was worse I think. He added a headache and stomach ache. Said he should just stay home, and take a day off work. I asked if he was feeling that bad? He said yes. I was just like Oh wow. You might want to take something for that.
I think there is definitely something going on with him, but can't figure out what. So I stopped trying to. LOL I hope he's not about to get all depressed and sad again. I'm not sure I can take it. I can only control me, and right now that's enough.
It's dreary and rainy here today, which is affecting my mood, but I'm pushing through. I need for this to be a good day, so yesterday doesn't seem like such a fluke.
