Divorce....with a side of crazy...

[imthemom]

I read some of your old post Kat...your first posting sound like my situation so much!!..My S15 is having a hard time with all of it, his D just told him about the ow about 3 weeks ago(they have been seeing each other for at least 8 months from what I can tell) after lieing to him for months and he has been pretty confused ever since.
He has just started seeing his D this last week again after refusing to and D isnt really pushing it, and often cancels for "work" at the last minute. His participation in "Co Parenting" has been minimal at best...
AT this point Im ready to get it over with, He pushed so hard for this D and as soon as he found out what support was going to be he flipped out and started the stalling. Got a lawyer without telling me and is not fighting everything. Our first court date is May 2. In the mean time he knows we are barely getting by, doesnt care and doesnt ever call or ask if we need anything and if S15 asks for anything (school supplies, shoes, anything!!) he says he has no money, yet I see him all over town with ow. We on the other hand have no money for the basics like gas and groceries...the fact that he has money to sit in a starbucks line with her makes me want to scream!!..
I go back and forth from missing him to hating him, and hope for the day that the crash and burn happens. He on his own for the first time, has lots of money to burn right now and has NO responsabilities, life is great for him. When life sets in he will have a rude awakening and he has NEVER handled that well.
He walked away from my 2 sons (his Step sons) and has not spoken to them in 8 months..he raised them as his own for 19 years...
I never would have seen this comeing in a million years..at least not this way.