Barely, the winds have started, I feel my house will blow over! You know what this may be terrible advice, but I have seen your pic on fb, you are a beautiful girl, and everything I have read in your threads tells me a great mom and great person who is self aware. Does this guy deserve such an wonderful woman? You are 2 years older than my daughter I think of that all the time. What advice would I give to her. The big thing is she doesn't have kids. That makes a huge difference. I know that factors into everything. I just think your h. is stupid, I know, totally subjective. I'm old, considerering, 58, old enuf to be your mom, you are young, beautiful, caring, intelligent, together, you can do this on your own if you want, you have alot of life left in front of you. To be happy and fulfilled with someone who appreciates the greatness of you. We all see that about you here. So keep that in mind while you ponder. I am your best friend tonite. I really care. Take care BF, Pam
