Hi Ichrus, just read your sitch and it's very similar to mine. My W is still in contact with OM - we are still living together in same bed, but not trying to have a R right now. W - wants out & will probably wait until my UNI has finished at the begining of May, before she decides what she wants to do. In the meantime I'm just detaching, and a bit like you struggling at times, but it's important not to lose sight of your goals.
Mr Bond gave you some good advice about how to handle the sleeping arrangements, it'll be tough but you can do it!
Keep posting and keep sharing - it does make things easier.
Bill
Me 34 W 32 D 9 S 6 M: 9 years T: 12 Bomb: 02/11/12 EA/PA: 12/17/11 - ongoing Moved out: Oct 2012 Joint Filed for D: 2/11/13