My poor H is one of those white guys who works inside, guess he doesn't tan..... So the tell tale white chin wasn't there.

Oh yes, I had a dream about my H the other night. A complete and total sex dream. Made me laugh in the morning. But I didn't go crawl in bed with him to see if we could reinact it.

I actually stopped going and getting in bed with him. Stopped 2 weeks ago now. The whole other 3 months I was sleeping in the guest room I ended up back in the master bedroom around 3 am.

I did it a few times this incarnation of our on again off again dance. Then decided I just am not up to being this hard on myself. So alone I sleep.

The house tenting won't be done while he is gone, because I haven't scheduled it. I did find more of the evil termites living in furniture today. YUCK!

And I was out to a BBQ with friends tonight and then was on his own for dinner tonight. He appears to have figured it out!

Aloha for now!


Me 57 XH 58 Sons age 32 & 27 M:32
D final 9/12
Bought 10 Acres and Living the Dream!