PS I wouldn't offer her the bed at any time. That's where she spent more than an hour speaking to OM. There's the couch. A pity you don't have a spare bedroom. The kids could all share, and she can move into one of their rooms???? Just a thought.
Me:57 H:52 M:28 Got another lawyer last year and filed. D35,S/D twins28,D22 EA4/04 End? Who knows? "Life is like a mirror. Smile at it and it smiles back at you." — Peace Pilgrim