My husband has mentioned the same thing to other mutual friends, that he doesn't love her which I find bizarre, why get that out there knowing that there is a chance they would tell me ? He's generally a closed book when it comes to those things.
He also mentioned that he had to buy her an expensive gift in return for all the money she spends on him. She's trying to buy his affection.
I know the reasons why my husband left and I guess I never gave up hope for him or us and I have tried everything to better myself. I've been in therapy for over a year, I take anti-depressants, I've joined groups and changed so much about my life. I've been on trips and dated but yet I still hold that man so dearly in my heart.
I don't want to move away I want to figure out how to get closer to him. If he's unhappy I'll never stop caring for him and wanting to help him. I try not to dwell on the OW or him too much but hearing this news has really shaken things up for me.
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"Good memories tell you that your past was worth it, bad ones tell you that you were strong enough to go on"
