Yankee--I am sorry you are going through this situation also. It really is not fun!! I do want to back off and not do much for his birthday, so the e-card is a good idea. I was not going to get him a gift or anything. It's so tough because I feel like I'm walking on eggshells at times.
JKS--I am not sure what he feels about the dating situation. He was fine and more open with me yesterday when we were on a date, but I felt like I backslid at times. If I was happy the WHOLE time, then I think it would have gone better for both of us, but it did end on a good note. We've only been on one date and he didn't seem hesitant. He came over, on time, and we were together for 2 hours, which is the most I've been with him in a month.
I guess I've always told myself that if I have to think too much about doing something, then it's probably not the right decision. But a part of me, does tell me to ask him for ice cream, because with our schedules, we won't even be able to see each other until next Monday or Tuesday and that's it. Then,we both go on separate vacations....I don't know. I'm still so torn!
M: 27 H: 28 T: 8 yrs M: 6 yrs Sep: 2/18/12 (I have no feelings for you!) EA/PA Uncovered: 2/26/12 H introduces OW to his fam: June H moves ALL stuff out: July
