Ahhhh.. So nice to hear that Antonia. Glad you don't think all men are evil and out to do harm.
Seriously though, glad you are able to find somebody you can open up to. Reminds me of another friend who, after changing her perspective to be more positive (she's a great lady but had an xh similar to yours), texted me the other day to tell me "it's raining good men. not sure why :)"
I honestly couldn't have been happier for her. I was waiting for that moment for her. When she would look up and see that men are better than what she was dating. Funny story: she actually called me once from the bathroom at a restaraunt where she was trying to get away from her current date. I laughed so hard she barely spoke to me for a few days until we could both laugh at it.
She had a hard time finding good men until she realized it was her perspective. Until she was ready to see the good people.
Good stuff, Antonia. Made my day to see this post!
AJ
"Our lives begin to end the day we become silent about things that matter" MLK Put the glass down... "Yesterday I was clever so I wanted to change the world Today I am wise, so I am changing myself."
