I am so sorry you are in this situation! It still amazes me how many people have the same type of situation occurring every day. I, too, was told by my H that he wants out, has no feelings for me, and that he just wants to start his whole life over. He just walked away from everything and I, too, have been trying to "help" my husband this past year figure out what is going to make him happy in life, but I guess in return that pushed him away.
The only thing you can do right now is be the best person you know. My DB coach told me that I need to be the person he fell in love with because that is the true me and throughout the years of our marriage, life and other things have gotten in the way of the two of us being truly happy.
We separated a month ago and went on our first 'date' yesterday. It was okay...could have been worse, but could have been better. So, things can get better....keep your head up and keep posting!
M: 27 H: 28 T: 8 yrs M: 6 yrs Sep: 2/18/12 (I have no feelings for you!) EA/PA Uncovered: 2/26/12 H introduces OW to his fam: June H moves ALL stuff out: July
