You're doing fine. In fact, when she says such nonsense like YOU are controlling her by having her sleep on the couch, stop her before she continues. Tell her "uh I'm pretty sure that by YOU telling me that I have to sleep somewhere else, that's YOU controlling me. Not the other way around."

When she says something about being "afraid" of you, again, stop her and speak calmly but directly to her that you have never done anything to make her afraid of you and that she only started saying things like that after she started seeing the OM. That you will not be blamed any longer or a continued scapegoat.

Then walk away. Remember, stay cool and calm. You can do it.


M-43 W-40
2D - 9 and 5

Emotion, yet peace.
Ignorance, yet knowledge.
Passion, yet serenity.
Chaos, yet harmony.
Death, yet a new life.

RECONCILED AND WISER