Just separated from my husband and need support

[Milady]

Thank you Cadet. Sorry about the last post, I didn't realize it would be so hard to read.

A bit more background on H: I think he is depressed, he has even admitted he is probably depressed (and he's a doctor so he should know), but he refuses to talk to anyone and has been hesitant to go on anything. I myself have suffered from depression, which probably did not help our relationship, but I have finally found the right treatment for me and am feeling better than I have in years when it comes to that.

This last year has been a huge shift for him. Going from being a medical student whose parents paid all his bills to moving to a new city and starting a really hard residency and having to be financially responsible for the first time in his life. I see a lot of parallels between his behaviors and men in a MLC, though he is only 27. Could anyone suggest any books on MLC that might be appropriate for a younger man?

He texted me last night to ask about a bill, but then went on to ask about my weekend, etc. For the most part I have allowed him to be the one to initiate contact and I plan to continue that.

On a positive note, I had a job interview today and it went really well! Hopefully I will have a job soon and that will take a huge amount of stress off of me and make me feel like I have a purpose again.