I will get that book. I woke up this morning and wondered when I would get my old self feeling back. I am avoiding my H, so am staying in bed.
He appears to be trying to be more kind, he keeps 'letting' me have the dogs in 'my' bedroom. He doesn't see how it hurts when he talks like that.
Last night he went to bed before the kids left, it was late. He went around the room and hugged everyone. Rather than get left out I scatted to the bathroom. Maybe he was going to hug me, too. Probably not and I couldn't stand the hurt.
My oldest son and DIl came over again this morning, I have my granddaughters for awhile. They are part of what upsets me, I just want to be near them!
But practical action steps and proactive working on myself seems just the ticket!
Thanks!
Me 57 XH 58 Sons age 32 & 27 M:32 D final 9/12 Bought 10 Acres and Living the Dream!