Don't let things like this worry you. My W told me that too even though we never argued before, never yelled, etc. It was only after I found out about her hidden A that suddenly she was "afraid" of me. It's a security mechanism that many of the WAS's use to not accept any responsibility for their actions.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.