But now your wife is planning on moving to SC and you are worried that your time with your son is going to be affected. I can definitely understand your situation.
But when you send her email about the 50/50 custody, better plan on what you plan to do to get that 50/50 custody. Like either moving to SC to find a job close to your W.
Seems like your not changing is a common thing that your W brings up. Now it could be that she just likes to egg you on, for which you cannot do much but stand strong and calm. If not, maybe you can see what you can change so that she sees you in a different light
Just a suggestion. when my Wife filed it was just me working. But i still split our 2010 tax returns with her 50/50 because i wanted her to know that i value my honor and word over money. I should say that it did help.
Good luck man.
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