Divorce....with a side of crazy...

[kat727]

I don't know if this will help you or not. I haver been divorce a bit over 3.5 years. He cheated, I didn't want the divorce as I wasnted to keep our family together and move past it. He chose not to and went on to marry his affair partner.

I was very angry and hurt(still am at times but don't dwell on it)in the beginning. Now we aren't friends but we can talk about the kids and basketball and most of the stuff we talked about before the divorce. Strange to me. However, it is what it is. The kids come first.

kat