Wow Adinva, I wasn't expecting that, but I think you're right about a lot of stuff there. One of the problems I've found in our relationship has been standing my ground. I'be always been the one to say sorry 1st when we fight etc and I think you're right I need to stop worrying so much about how she feels and just be straight with her over this counselling. I don't think she'll mention it tonight but if she does i'll just say no.
Thanks adinva, I needed a woman to psychoanalyse my fear of confrontation and indecision when it comes to W. Probably one of the major reasons I ended up here.
Me 34 W 32 D 9 S 6 M: 9 years T: 12 Bomb: 02/11/12 EA/PA: 12/17/11 - ongoing Moved out: Oct 2012 Joint Filed for D: 2/11/13