By showing that you are not interested in her for a wife, that means you are not angry, jealous, rude, or selfish. Hopefully, that which makes her female, will rise to the occasion.
Hi Sandi
I've been tested today with my detaching by my W since my counselling session. She has been hounding me, wanting to know what has been said (Curiosity Overkill). I was polite on the phone & said that it was mainly about me and that I didn't feel like it was right discussing this over the phone. She carried this on via text messages. I said that the sessions were worthwhile, but she kept asking me if I wanted to talk about them in detail. So I said I'm happy to discuss them with you later, but that if we do discuss my counselling session, we both know where the conversation will probably end up and that it was totally her call. She replied saying , "OK then I'd rather not" so I replied, "Me too" then i got a , "fair enough" to which I replied, "Are you OK?" I got a "Yeah xx" back to which I replied, "Thanks babe xx".
Now I'm pretty sure I could've handled this a little better, but did I do that badly here, considering?
Me 34 W 32 D 9 S 6 M: 9 years T: 12 Bomb: 02/11/12 EA/PA: 12/17/11 - ongoing Moved out: Oct 2012 Joint Filed for D: 2/11/13
