You've been married 12 years and hope to turn things around in 1-3 weeks? Really?
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Apparently she was not serious about the mistress, I was caught with a very nice looking 22yr old by one of my wife’s friends (dancing, kissing at a club). This pushed kind of pushed the situation over the edge
Why did you do this? Not a challenge, just in your own mind, what were you trying to accomplish? Was this a way to fix your marriage?
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I think she tried a little more to be a better wife a month or so ago and I did not recipiate as much as I should have.
What did she do to try to be a "better wife"? How do you define better wife?
How could you be a better husband? A better you?
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she constantly “needed a break” before and I never took them on my own. In my defense, I didn’t but it was hard for me to handle a baby and two young kids by myself.
Really? What exactly is your defense?
Me 57/H 58 M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13
Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do. I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering. Caroline Myss
