I know we discussed, asking for some help w/making him respect your space now. If he can't respect your request...
Thankfully, your appointment is tomorrow, and you can start to make some decisions, and understand your options.
You're right. You can't just keep GAL away from your home, because you can't be around him.
Agree. "A", you shouldn't have to (you haven't done anything wrong!), and "B" the boys need you around MORE during this time, not LESS. So going out right now (during reasonable hours), is a short-term, self-preservation tactic we are advising you. Your atty can tell you what your options are going forward.