We have had some calmer discussions. Its obvious she is completely checked out and only wants to give up. I'm just goin be the best father I can at this point, she doesn't want a husband. There is noting logical about it, feel I just have to hope for a change of heart. I basically have two choices at this point:

1) Hope this works over the 1-3 weeks
2) Take her "roommate" offer and hope time heals all wounds

I'm done pushing though, its out of my system now. The settlement/divorce talk will lead to financial ruin and will be forced to go after custody of the kids... so everything will be done when we get to this point.