I understand how you just want a decision made and hate this 'not knowing' point in your life. My mom told me last night that when I'm ready to make a decision to continue working on our marriage completely or if I decide I've had enough, that I will have that sense of relief. Right now, I have decided to work on my marriage without my H really wanting to work on it with DB methods, but I don't know how long I can continue in this Limbo Land.
M: 27 H: 28 T: 8 yrs M: 6 yrs Sep: 2/18/12 (I have no feelings for you!) EA/PA Uncovered: 2/26/12 H introduces OW to his fam: June H moves ALL stuff out: July