Yes, it certainly is complicated! My head is swimming with it all! She is doing brilliantly bless her, so much better than me!! The toughest part is she talks about "when she's better and won't have to have the injections anymore" - it breaks my heart when she says it and really how can you explain that it's forever to a 3 year old .
You're completely right about it being an extra stress on me and H - this has highlighted all too clearly how bad we are - we have done nothing but argue since - I admit to causing a lot of it myself - I just can't seem to even be civil. Analysing myself I think it's that a time like this is when you really need a hug and extra support and love from your H and because I'm not ready to be like that with him I'm not getting any of that and so I feel even more angry towards him now - because not only am I angry about what he's done I'm now angry because I'm dealing with this stressful situation without a loving partner too! (if that makes sense - not sure I've explained very well). I really think we're very close to splitting - neither of us can take this anymore. I'm so, so fed up of getting no support and he's fed up of me being awful. I can't seem to stop though. Maybe it's another one of those normal everyone goes through it stages, I don't know.
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