labug, I intentionally made my choices and acted without trying to influence/consider her reactions. Everyone keeps saying that I've got to make my decisions and stop trying to bring her into them. I guess I could have envisioned a few reactions: She could have said, okay, then I'll move out. She could have said, then I'm taking the kids and moving back home. She could have said, I'm getting a lawyer.
Now I have to choose: I could say, I'm so sorry, let's go back to plan A. (I know that it is plan doormat, but it looks a lot better than what I'm facing now) Or I can say, sticking with my decisions.
Not a trivial note: we sat the kids down this afternoon and told them that Mommy and Daddy are getting a divorce. [censored]
