Don't answer your cel phone from your ex on a date. Simple. She is trying to control you. She KNOWS you are out on a date and she insists on making her presence known.

Sorry that another date has been ruined by illness. I hope Spring bring both you and SDA lady better health. At least all the scares have turned out to be nothing and hopefully the Pap will be the same. Getting up close and personal at the walk in clinic is a different way to date these days I guess.

The employers sound like insensitive jerks. Slavery went out years ago I thought. Tell SDA lady to buy them a copy of "The Help" for their anniversary. Just a thought.

Barb