Oh, I am so sorry! That really is the last thing you wanted to hear today.

All I can say is, this is JUST the beginning. Although you have so many questions and want to know everything and want to know it right now, you have to remember the things that you've learned here. I have the best quote from someone on this board that I'm going to post for you. Hopefully it will help you gain some perspective. It is quite powerful.

(His PA may be a dealbreaker for you, but that is something you're going to have to figure out for yourself. No one can tell you what the right thing is to do.)

I really am so sorry. You are stronger than you know, girl!

Me: 32 H: 32
M 9 yrs
#1 D7 #2 S5 #3 D2
Bomb 8/12/11
H moved out 8/14/11
PA started w/H & OW in 1/12 - found out 3/24/12
Got my own place 8/25/12
H & OW move in together 9/15/12
Still married.