Husband left me...feel hopeless

[hopingandpraying]

Date went okay. I tried really hard not to talk about our relationship, but to focus on the positives going on in our lives, but I still had questions about his A. I needed to know if he had PA with this girl, too, or if it was EA. I needed to know this because a part of me does not think I can heal from a PA. He, then, admitted to being physical with the OW three weeks ago. He says they still talk at work, but nothing more than that. I was completely hurt and could not eat my breakfast at that point.

I, still, continued with our date and tried to be upbeat and talk about neutral things like going out and the news and weather. We, even, took our dog for a walk for a half hour...baby steps right. He also took clothes from the house for the warmer weather. He did agree to let the dog out again and said he would come here Tues and Wed. He did open up and say that he is seeing a counselor this Wednesday also, so that is a plus.

However, he mentioned selling our house, which to me is a clear cut, "I don't want to be with you." I simply asked him why? He said well if we are not together, then we don't need the house, and I said well if we are together? He said that he just wants to move into an apartment and live a simple life. Now, we have a dog, cat, and a three bedroom house with a finished basement...a lot of stuff that won't fit into a two-bedroom apartment. I just don't understand...