Never thought I'd be here..........Part 12

[Snowman]

Rick,

Thanks for your post on my thread. It helps to hear from someone in a similar boat.

As for the FIL thing I bet my FIL is probably saying the same thing even though I gave my W half the money (thousands) to do what she pleases with it of the which she blew a lot of clothes and crap. Like Rick said all FIL will protect their daughters and I would assume your own F would side with you. That's just what family does.

Crimson you know the truth that you did not leave her abandon and desperate and it was her choice to leave. Don't let this get down on you. It unfortunately is part of the deal when letting someone leave. The leaving of my W sucked too and I worried about but it was her choice and she had plenty of money to do what she needed. If your W felt that giving all her money to a L was most important then that's her decision and part of the consequences.

Take care and keep focused on the positive .