I really need help! I just tried to apologize about making her feel a prisoner. We talked pretty calmly. I think things were staying level until I made the mistake of saying "you have talked several times in the last 18 hours about my pornography, but you haven't mentioned your problem." She evaded some even at that. I pushed. Sandi2, thank you for all of your thousands of posts on this forum. You have helped me to understand where my wife is. But I've lost hope in DB and these methods. Nothing on here is close to my sitch. I took you guys' advice and even talked to lots of people before putting my foot down, and Boom! I know that things wouldn't necessarily look better immediately. But there is no way that this marriage can be saved. Maybe before last night. Maybe I could have followed through on the 2-week handoffs with the kids and really become the man she would admire and want. But now there is no way. Sorry for wallowing in sorrow. I don't know what is going to happen.
