Yeah, it boggles my mind too! This lady will go above and beyond for you and this is what she gets in return? Wow. She's just furniture. Anyway, I just returned from taking SDA Lady to the walk in clinic. It was packed, they were sitting out in the hallway! If you weren't sick going in you sure would be coming out. The hacking was like a symphony...a bad one. But it was nice to see two other guys there holding their sick ladies and stroking their hair too. Affection is always so nice to see...and do So, Dr. gave SDA Lady anti-biotics and codeine cough medicine, despite the sign that says "we do not prescribe narcotics" Dr. also told her that her U/S on the breast showed everything was fine. She also had to book a pap smear. SDA Lady turns to me in the hall and says "why do I need to have a pap smear if I'm not active" and I replied "hey, don't blame me for your inactivity!" She laughed. Afterwards, I took her to buy a few groceries for her dinner tonight. We them went out to a noodle place for lunch...she paid. Just as we were finished lunch ex calls and informs me that I'm supposed to drop off the children today as she did it last week. I said that was fine, I'd thought I'd dropped them the previous week but I'd be home soon and bring them over. SDA Lady said "just do it, don't bother arguing with her" So when I arrived with the kids I laid out the case for my defense...as pointless as it was. Finally, after she argued that I was wrong (despite D14 saying I had picked them up) I just said "hey look, it really doesn't matter, let's just mark our calenders so we don't have this confusion again" Voldy agreed. But, I did pick up the kids last week, so there!!!! So that's my day so far.