I think asking him makes you sound like his mother. Is that the relationship you want with him?

What would be the acceptable answer for you? And if the answer is not acceptable, what do you do?

Just how important is it?

He wants space. Is asking this question giving him that?

Me 57/H 58
M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13

Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do.
I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering.
Caroline Myss