The things you learn here are for your whole life, not just your kids or your marriage.

Picture the person you want to be and start moving toward that. Begin to state directly to yourself what you want as well as what you don't want.

Me 57/H 58
M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13

Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do.
I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering.
Caroline Myss