Good morning! It was awkward to say the least. He was gardening all day and had plans to go out at 6 with friends of ours. He invited me and I guess he was hoping I would change my mind.
My next door neighbor invited me for a visit and then I found out that he was invited as well, so I decided not to go. Then H decided not to go. Yikes.
He rented a few movies and was staying in. I said "I thought you were going out with M and N tonight?" and his response was "I changed my mind but if you want to go WE can go". I said "no thanks I was planning a quiet night"
There was no arguing, he is being very helpful and kind but that is his way of 'making things right' and that is clearly not working for me like it has in the past.
I really hope that he gets in to see an IC this week, for his sake and for mine.
I am heading to church in an hour and I have a dinner with a large group of friends tonight. Looking forward to it.
PS..re: the advice above, I took what I needed from it and I appreciate all of you responding but I have to keep my focus right now.
