The Italians have definitely got with the Irish I am half of each...
Originally Posted By: Rick
I have no idea at this point what's what. When she was talking to me last night it was like she was drunk dialing me but from two feet away. It was scary as hell....and S13 was not digging it. I read True Grit's story and it spooked me - same trauma...same age...same wild responses...same breakdown...same diagnosis..same type of girl. His story didn't end so well for her. I don't think I will ever have a life with her as H/W going forward...but I will look after her forever. I think about my next relationship and will make sure this doesn't corrupt that by keeping watch for her. You never know though...miracles do happen.
Yes they do... (miracles) I wouldn't bet on it. This isn't about a game of chance because you hold the key...
Don't make your choice on what happened to me...
But in spite of me. As I am fond of saying.
I met my W while she was in crisis. We have no children. I don't know what is down the road and neither do you.
THAT is why YOUR choice is so critical.
Don't you see?
It is not circumstance.
It is NOT the cards you have been dealt.
It is especially NOT the cards she has been dealt.
That was not her fault. Not an excuse, but still not her fault.
It is what YOU do with it...
That will make ALL the difference in the world.
To you and your children.
And
This is tough one to get.
Especially to your wife.
PS: Stop involving your son in the code deal. That's his mother. Treat her accordingly.
ALWAYS. Period. It is hard I know. But do it. It is the decision that makes sense for everyone involved.
My goal is to some day be the person my dog thinks I am
