Me 46 - H 45 S 15 S 11 Married 17 yrs Bomb - Valentines Day 2012
Thanks for the info. I have read DR and have started applying what I learned. (180-and giving him PLENTY of space) Still in denial about OW. However, I have decided to let it go ( not easy) Always seems to b angry with me about something. Even makes things up!? However, today was a good day- little things most people wouldn't notice. My S15 had a baseball game we attended. When it was over he actually packed up my chair and reminded me not to forget my other chair and umbrella. ( big deal to me- it's been forever that he actually spoke pleasant to me and made eye contact). I asked him to fertilize the yard and he did. I was expecting him to suggest I do it since I'm home all day! After he was done he took the boys out to dinner. When they returned he seemed confused..almost like he didn't know what to do with himself. When he got ready to leave I thanked him for fertilizing and told the boys the thank their dad for dinner. As H was walking out the door he pointed out to me that there were "left overs" on the bar. Even told me what they were! This also may sound like nothing to the non- MLCers wife.. but to me is was a step in the right direction. At least we parted on a GOOD note! I pray for many more days like this one <><
