Originally Posted By: jks
H just texted me and asked me if I wanted to go out to dinner with him. I need advice. The thing is I have a lot of time to think about it because he doesn't want to go out until after the end of the month. I guess things at work are going to be busy for him until then.

I know I shouldn't talk about the R. I just wonder if there are specific things anyone could share with me about where my thought process should be. This will help me prepare. Thanks, everyone!


I guess I should be more clear... I did accept his invitation. But still concerned on where my thought process should be while on the date.


Me: 32 H: 32
M 9 yrs
#1 D7 #2 S5 #3 D2
Bomb 8/12/11
H moved out 8/14/11
PA started w/H & OW in 1/12 - found out 3/24/12
Got my own place 8/25/12
H & OW move in together 9/15/12
Still married.