I'm happy that your session went well. I kinda am jealous that you were able to accomplish so much in such a short amount of time... LOL!! It's taken 7 months for my H to finally initiate a date. (But I'll take it!)

About the text... you never really know what went on after you texted him. He could have been away from his phone that entire time. I know that happens to me all the time. He could be thinking about if he's ready to "date" this soon after the coaching session... IDK. Patience, patience, patience. It is seriously the biggest up and down spiral. And, to be honest, you have to get used to that.

So many times I've heard, expect NOTHING. It's pretty true. The more you expect, the harder you'll fall when he disappoints you time and time again.

I hope, for your sake, that he will actually take the time to go on this date. Good luck!


Me: 32 H: 32
M 9 yrs
#1 D7 #2 S5 #3 D2
Bomb 8/12/11
H moved out 8/14/11
PA started w/H & OW in 1/12 - found out 3/24/12
Got my own place 8/25/12
H & OW move in together 9/15/12
Still married.