Husband left me...feel hopeless

[hopingandpraying]

So, we had our DB coaching session today and it went well. He was in there for an hour talking to our coach about things. Then, I met with her for a half hour and then the both of us met with her. He did say that he felt unappreciated in our marriage and that I did not initiate sex enough, which are things I can definitely work on and am willing to work on.

The coach then did suggest, and he agreed too, THANK GOD, for us to start dating again. This week she wants us to go on one date and then next week 2 and so forth and so on. We are supposed to talk during these dates about how we've changed in the past month, what things we are going to continue changing, and just our feelings. We also talked about ways we are have to communicate better.

So, then after we left coaching, we drove in our separate cars and started heading home. While on the highway, he sped by me and smirked at me. I, then, called him and said "What you think that smirk is going to get you out of a ticket?" And he laughed and said yeah. So we continued having a "playful" conversation on the phone for 5 minutes and I ended it by saying that we had to plan our date for this week and he said he knew, so we discussed the only 2 days we both were available (he works nights). He said he would let me know and I said "Okay, well have a good night and I'll talk to you soon."

I, then, went shopping and remembered that I could not meet up with him on one of the nights that I told him because I have training for work, so I texted him letting him know this information and that the only day I have available is tomorrow for breakfast or lunch. This was 5 hours ago that I texted him and NO RESPONSE!!!! These are the things that I don't understand. Why he cannot text me back...I mean it's tomorrow that is our only possibility for a date this week.