Thanks Sandi, I really have come to terms with this not going to be a quick fix now. It is really hard doing the opposite of what you want to do & it's only been a day for me. I know what you mean about going dark not being the best thing for me - but there were some really good bits of advice in that post. I'm giving this DB'g a real go now. It really hurt me what she said when she was talking about the OM and I know that their relationship is more than likely going to carry on & evolve. I can't stop it, but I can stop thinking about it. I need to focus on my UNI work only got 7 weeks left & I'm so behind, but I need to get at least a 2:1 in my degree to get on my teaching course in September.
Thanks Sandi – I’ll feel better equipped once I’ve read the DR book particularly focusing on the Infidelity & LRT chapters. It’s nice to know that you’re looking out for me & giving me good advice.
Bill
Me 34 W 32 D 9 S 6 M: 9 years T: 12 Bomb: 02/11/12 EA/PA: 12/17/11 - ongoing Moved out: Oct 2012 Joint Filed for D: 2/11/13
