just caught up on your sitch. wow. we have some similarities!

months ago, i was snooping through phone bills and discovered H had thousands of txts. there was a "friend" at work i suspected he had become a little too friendly with. not physically but definitely emotionally. it drove me insane thinking about what was going on.

in the end, what he was doing.. who he was talking to.. didn't change my situation and really wasn't something i could control. i had confronted him on it but.. he's still going to do what he's going to do.

focusing on the kids and strengthening your relationship w/ them is a great thing. don't let what's happening in your M have power over your relationship w/ them.

take care.

Me:38.. H:33.
Two beautiful kids S:6 D:3
M:8.. together for 11.
Bomb dropped:10/17/11
Separated:11/07/11