taking the time to watch the wave

[BFloat]

H txted me this morning saying S had been sick last night and at 5 this morning. said he hoped S didn't have gastro.

so what did i do?? immediately went into fix it mode! asking questions and offering suggestions. ugh! in retrospect.. it would have been better to just ask what he was going to do and let him take charge. darn it!!! i'm not even there and i have the urge to take charge!!

now to just go dim for a bit and wait for H to txt again w/ an update or whatever. can't believe how easy it is to fall back to old habits.